Traditions…traditions come in so many different forms for me…The simplest form of a tradition is a habit tied to an activity or occasion, such as enjoying Cheetos and a Coke on a road trip or having the family over for Sunday dinner. The more complex traditions are those that involve the whole family and require pre-planning with multiple family members and generations. Growing up in St. Louis, Thanksgiving Day at the farm was one of my favorite traditions when my Aunt Liz and her family traveled to town, and Dad hosted an afternoon duck hunt.
The hunt was always followed by cold beers in front of the fire and a very large traditional Thanksgiving dinner. The table was set with beautiful linens and all of the finishing touches, including place cards and party favors. I learned how all the little things can truly complete a tablescape, including fresh flowers, the formal gravy boat and butter dish, salt and pepper shakers collected over the years, and the large platter and gorgeous cutlery to showcase the turkey carving table side. My favorite part was always and still is the toast that each member of the family gave about what they are most thankful for.
Christmas tradition also involved a big family meal and still does today, but often Christmas is celebrated with a late brunch after all families have enjoyed Christmas morning in their own homes. The most important tradition of Christmas is the community giving that takes place. When I was young, we would go to the senior center and bring gifts for all of the seniors in St. Peters, Missouri. The tradition of giving is something that we try and practice year-round, but it is especially important during the holidays.
Over the past 10 years, my holidays involve two new traditions, one being our holiday advent calendar Window at Hearth and Soul, and the second being hosting the Hearth and Soul teams for holiday dinners to thank them for all of their hard work and service to others throughout the year. These are two of my favorite new traditions each year.
As we look forward to Halloween in a couple of weeks, traditions are alive and well… I can see them coming to life on neighbors’ lawns, and with pumpkin carving and pumpkin patch visits showing up on many Instagram and Facebook posts.
My mom created a tradition that has lasted over 50 years that I hope we experience again this year. Tallahassee, be on the lookout for a woman in a white Jetta riding around town with a witch’s mask on, most likely visiting her family at Hearth and Soul! You see, since I was a little girl, Mom has been wearing the same witch's mask out and about on Halloween Day, bringing smiles and fright to everyone that she comes into contact with. I love Mom's creative spirit, and I'm so grateful for all of the traditions we have shared over the years!
Please share any traditions that are close to your heart and enjoy yours this holiday season!
Cheers!
Susie
